Self-Development – Often you forget to look inside yourself. This is because you are too focused on looking outside, namely at other people, about how they have achieved, how their lives are, and how their daily lives are.
This condition creates an attitude of comparing yourself with other people which makes you unable to fully accept yourself and love yourself. For that, you need to improve yourself as soon as possible. Get into the habit of paying attention to the following five things within yourself. So that you can become a more developed person.
1. Pay attention to what your real goal in life is
Everyone must have their own life goals. However, not all of them have a strong desire to realize those life goals. One of the reasons is because your focus is still divided between yourself and you who often pay attention to other people’s lives.
Therefore, now is the time for you to care more about what you really want to aim for. Plant it within yourself, then affirm that desire so that you really have the enthusiasm to pursue it. Remember, focusing within yourself is the main thing.
2. Pay attention to the life experience gained so far
The experience you get in life certainly starts with the choice to dare to try something. When you dare, you have the opportunity to taste a variety of life experiences.
There are those who teach about joy and sorrow. This experience will be a provision for your future steps. Apart from that, it can also make you a more developed person. So, it’s better to practice focusing within yourself to try to learn many things from these experiences.
3. Pay attention to the extent to which you are able to learn from every incident in life
Every event in life certainly does not happen without a reason, but there is a certain purpose behind it. However, not everyone is able to interpret it correctly. This is because not everyone has the ability to learn good lessons.
When you can fully pay attention to yourself, that’s where you are in the acceptance phase. That way, your personality will develop much more. That’s what makes you indirectly able to learn from experience to become mature.
4. Pay attention to how responsible we are towards ourselves and the people around us.
In fact, you have a responsibility for yourself. Because, it is impossible for you to depend on other people for a long period of time. Everything related to your life is part of the risk that you should bear yourself. Because, you are the one who lives this life.
In addition, you also have responsibilities towards the people around you. This means that you definitely have a role in life, whether in school, work, or family. How you play that role is something that needs to be considered. So that you are able to maximize yourself to become the best version.
5. Pay attention to how we apply each knowledge we gain in our daily lives
Instead of focusing too much on taking care of other people’s lives, it would be better if you paid attention to the extent of application of every insight you have in everyday life. For example, knowledge gained from reading books, sharing with other people, or watching educational videos. That way, you will develop much more if you are able to implement it.
In fact, you only need to focus on yourself to fight for what you dream of. The rest, let fate decide. That way, the things you try one by one can become a reality.
Stop looking outside, because everyone has their own capacity and portion that cannot be equal. You also cannot fully control things that are beyond your control. Passionate about improving yourself, huh?
